Be cautious and aware of a warning signs of a possible break up . All relationships are different but there are usually similar symptoms of a trouble relationship to look out for:
1) You are being ignore by your partner.
It is not about him not talking to you. Ignoring someone, is where you lose interest in that person. What they are feeling or even where they were. Your love life may need a little work.
Think about why you are being ignore Have you forgotten their birthday or some other special event. Have you been less than loving lately. Are you feeling being neglected. People usually react over something they feel has happened. This could just be their perception but as they are your lover you should try to keep the relationship happy and you need to understand their point of view.
Why not give a surprise nice meal and sit down and talk about what is going on. Communication between couples is not always what it should be; but try to open a line of communication. Who knows where it may lead.
2) Your lover try to avoid seeing you or go out with you.
Does your lover suddenly becomes unavailable and too busy to see. You need to find out what that is. Do not ignore the warning signs. There is no excuse, find out the reason why he is behaving like this. Whatever you do, do not ignore these signals or you could find yourself in receipt of a break up letter.
3) Your partner is distant in the bedroom
While sex is only a three letter word, it can cause huge problems. Just ask any couple who has been together a long time. Sometimes your family or life’s issues can get in the way. Not making love every night is quite normal. What is not normal is not being intimate for months . Couples are held together by shared emotions and feelings. So do not underestimate the power of a cuddle.
In every relationship each one of us knows when one is happy or not. Sometimes their mood will have nothing to do with your actions, but often it is an indication of trouble brewing. Pay attention and look out for the above warnings signs. Otherwise you could find yourself wondering what went wrong with your relationship.
Very few people experience the sudden break up. There is usually a series of stages of breaking up in a relationship.If it comes as a shock, you probably have the reason why you were dumped. You were not paying attention to what was happening between you and your partner. Things like for instance, ignoring you and avoiding spending time with you.
We all get caught up in our own thing from time to time . But when your partner sees less of you than your friends and other family,it can highlight an issue in your relationship. If you do spend time together but are always fighting, you need to stop and break that cycle. Constant arguing achieves nothing and although initially it is fun making up, it can come to a point where you do not even bother trying.
Does your partner trust you? Do you trust them? Lack of trust is also a symptom of a partnership in trouble. If you expect to know where your partner all the time, they will soon see that this is not love. If you are behaving like this, you need to stop right now. Unless your spouse has given you reason not to trust them, you should believe in them and have faith that they will do the right thing.
Do you share your happy feelings and commiserate when you are down or feeling low? Couples who instinctively, know how the other is feeling, will overcome most of the blockage that life can throw at us.
Does your partner share your interests and hobbies? If she has made an effort to get involved, this is a sign that she really cares about you. No-one expects her to join you for your 5am fishing trips but if she seems interested in listening to your stories about what you caught, what size it was, that is a good sign.
Your partner may have asked for a trial separation. This is just an easy way of saying “you are dumped but I can’t say that!” But it does not always have to mean this. Things can go wrong between two people and only time apart will help them to resolve the issues.
So if your lover does suggest this, agree but ask that they come to counseling with you. Show that you do not want the relationship to end as they mean too much to you. Try not to put pressure on your partner and do not resort to emotional blackmail. You cannot force someone to love you but you can turn a bad situation into something a lot worse by appearing desperate or manipulative.
True love is based on understanding and respect. Showing your partner that you know this is a great way to avoid the final stages of breaking up.