Women find it challenging to keep their marriages without turning into separation or divorce. Why do men leave their wife and what can you do to make sure it does not happen to you.
The truth is that our society has made it complicated for men and women to find long term loving relationships. Why? Because our society has adopted the rules that are based on inaccurate information.
The most obvious misconception is the idea that men only want sex and/or have a much higher sex drive than women. The truth is that men and women have similar sex drives but men have been encouraged, by society, to fulfill their needs while women have been discouraged from having sex until they are married.
This leads to many misunderstandings between men and women and how they approach their relationships. It might mean a man will be more tempted to cheat on his wife because after all, it is in his nature. And women uses sex with the hopes of keeping her husband to stay in the marriage.
If we got to the bottom of the truth, men and women want basically the same things in a relationship. Both want to feel loved, respected, and desired by their partners. When you break it down it does not really seem all that hard, does it?
To keep your marriage strong try to meet both your needs not just one. Because of the way our society has taught us to behave, women have the tendency to think to meet the men needs and ignoring their own. No! this will only make you resentful and bitter and that would not keep a marriage intact.
While it is important to try to meet your husbands needs first, it can not be done to the detriment of your own. Do not put your wants and needs on hold to satisfy your husband, you will be unhappy, he will be unhappy (and bored) and the marriage would not last. For a marriage to thrive both parties need to be happy, healthy, stable, and have their needs being met constantly.
Finally men leave their wife because his needs are not being met, and it does not just mean his sexual needs. What this mean is he does not feel being love, desire, or respect and he will try to find someone who will.